Tuesday 21 April 2015

Golden days of my life.....

Its morning 7.00. Phone rings.... tring tring....tring tring.... Who's this?

It's his phone that's ringing and it's meeeeeeeeeeeee..... who called him. Sort of wake up call :P

Yes, my day used to start with him and it used to end with him. Know the schedule....
7.00AM : Wake call (sometimes). Minimum 5mins. session
7.05AM: Start to office.... walk towards bus stop
7.15AM: Getting into daily regular bus.
7.16AM: Make a call to him
If he is already on the way.... our discussion used to continue till we both reach to office. Otherwise... small break, till he catches his bus.
9.00AM: Meeting in the office (Of course, just to see each other)
 Then our routine office work starts.....
6.30PM: My work used to complete (daily basis), generally. And generally we used to start from office together. Max. times, I used to wait for him. And used to start together.
If we started by 6.30PM, we used to catch direct bus of him. Sit together in general seats... where we used to sit always. Otherwise, try to get into some rush free bus, so that can stand together.
As soon as got into the bus.... start chit chatting again, till we reach our destination. Our destination.... our homes. Till we both reach our home, we used to be on phone. Yes, our destinations are located at the same place.... at some point they used to deviate.

And then before going to sleep... last call for the day, just to wish Good Night :)

Again next day.... starts with same schedule.

Works used to change, responsibilities used to change....but our conversation schedule.... NEVER.

What would be the conversation? Don't know :(

But used to talk alot n lot n lot...... never ending if time permits. Jokes, teasing, fighting, discussions, arguments... these were the daily dos of our life. Anything used to change....but our talk time.... NO WAY.

He.... he.... he.... Who is he? Boy friend?

NOOOOOOOOOOOO HE is my BEST FRIEND, forever BEST FRIEND. One and only one who is as mirror to me. Looking at him, I can see myself, I can know whats going on in my mind, I can feel how happy I'm. I can.... if I start mentioning what I feel when am around him... this life won't be enough. The perfect definition of BEST FRIEND.... its him (for me atleast).

We would never know how relations form with strangers. But we know how to maintain and to what extent we need to maintain. But.... sometimes, in life we meet some special people. They are not exactly special. But the bonding between us makes us feel them special. And how that bonding starts, we never know. Some day, a very special moment, we understand ourselves, that they are very special to us. Very precious.... probably like a diamond. And that moment.... our life change, life style change, feelings change, and we ourselves change....always feel confident when they are around us. Always feel happy and excited with them.

Exactly the same thing happened to me when I met him. Started smiling, being confident, positive minded, chill sort.... childish as usual....

Remember those days, when we used to walk together...when it was late night by the time we return home. Those long chats in the bus stop..... leaving all the buses. And such a most beautiful, memorable and lovable day of my life..... when we had a long walk in the night while returning home. Its was like more than 2hours we spent together on the roads walking. And we were talking.... some silly things. Probably not silly.... but sort of, atleast for others. And the only topic was..... WHY DID WE CAME SO CLOSE TO EACH OTHER? And answer for it..... none of us could find till now.

Frankly speaking I don't think about it much. Why, How.... atleast in his case, I don't want the reasons of how it happened, or why it happened. For me, it just happened, it changed my life and am very happy since then. What more to say.... the extent I write about him.... the more I feel to write. I more I feel him, the more I miss him, the more I feel to have him in my life around me....

Golden day of my life.... 

when we were working in one company. When he was very near to me.... as much close as my breadth. And now.... though we meet or not, we talk to each other or not.... still HE remains the same to me.... MY BEST FRIEND, forever.... till the last breadth of my life.

He was my BEST FRIEND
He is my BEST FRIEND, n,
He will be my BEST FRIEND.

No one can take his place in my life ever....never.

Wednesday 1 April 2015

Missing all those days.....


Hurray!!!!!!!!!! Time to Celebrate...

Those were the words that used to ring in the mind as soon as we completed our exams. Happiness was not for exams completion, but its for the moment that going to come soon into our lives.... moments that going to cherish for whole life as a sweet memory.

Those were the golden days or probably the most lovely days that we lived to the hundred percent, each n every second. Even today when I recall those days, my heart feels the heaven and tons of loads of energy comes into my body.

Those days...those days.... what are those days and when were they? Right?

School days.

School days!!!!

Yes, those were the days when we were in school; and those special days were our summer holidays, where all of our cousins used to gather at one place and used to enjoy the life to the full extent. Live the childhood and cherish it.

How?

Lengthy story.... May I? OK, shall try to cut shot to the possible extent.

Let me first introduce my batch.... Aswani, Chandu, Arun, Mammu, Harshita, Tejaswi and Meeeee. Almost we are of same age group wth months difference between us. Aswani was eldest out of us and youngest was Arun. So all of us were in schooling with almost in same classes. Our exams used to get completed in the same time with 1 or 2 days difference.

As soon as we completed our exams, we used to gather at one place.... our head office, obviously our grandparents house (R K Puram). N daily routine used to be play, play, n play. And inorder to not to get bored, sometimes (of course many a times) we used to fight with each other. A special batch that were specialist in such memories were girls... that too in batches.... and special batch was Pavani (Surekantam) – Tejaswi (Chayadevi).

Daily routine was waking up, getting ready, breakfast and then start our favorite pass time. Max. We used to play Shuttle badminton... hours used to pass but we never to feel tired. The only break time was lunch, and snacks. Again it used to continue till it was dark. Telephone game was the one that we used to play most. Long walk, chat counters, movies, chitchat.... all these were our daily dose then.

After sometime, move to HCL colony. Routine was same, but places used to change. Then to Begumpet, malakpet....used to roam our houses in intervals and used to enjoy the complete summer vacations. How the 2months used to pass would never know to us.

Then its time to depart and get back to real life.... schooling, n waiting for the next year summer vacations.....

Most adorable out of those special moments were.... first trip to Narsaraopet, complete family in a bus, for Phani mama's marriage. Then our family trip to Basara and then Shirdi. Ya, how can I forget, most funniest trip was second trip to Narsaraopet; for Shravanthi's naming ceremony. Many unusual thing happened, that make us roll on floor laughing, and cherish even today.

Over !!!!!!!!!! That's it?

No, not yet. Its just prior interval session. It continues further like this....

Every time we had a gathering... it used to be a dhamaal ka fun, enjoyment and full rocking, with dance, songs and masti. New Year!!!!! the celebration day...where there was no difference in age groups. Elders, youngsters equally used to dance, have fun and celebrate it. Welcoming the new year with such a lot energetic celebrations used to make us start our year with full JOSH.

Remember the Diwali celebrations.... most happiest Diwali celebration. Of course, last Diwali with grand mother; most auspicious and lovable one. It was a celebration that's mixed with traditional and modern styles. Dance, Antakshakari, DJ night; and our special DJ was Aditya mama, most eligible DJ of CHIKAGO family; included with firing crackers, family photos, sweet celebrations... entire family gathering.

Then....???

We have become professionals.... job holders. Few got settled abroad and few, in our mother land itself with different roles in life. New sort of living style, new responsibilities, new goals and dreams. Days started fading.... life has become mechanical. Now we hardly meet and communicate. No more shuttle badminton, telephone games, DJ nights.

Missing all those fun moments....

Hmmmmmm..... SO?

So? Life should have some sort of change yaar.... otherwise you'll get bored. Right? Sooooo.... now we started having fun in a different way, at the same time completing our responsibilities, fulfilling our dreams.... along with new members, OUR LIFE PARTNERS, then our juniors, who are our resemblances.

Though not regularly, but still we gather, we meet, we celebrate, we enjoy;using the technology... Whatsapp, Viber, facebook, face time... We share our special dishes in terms of pics... lavish lunch buffets, same DJ style and dance... but this time, our dancers are our Juniors. Yes, when we see all of them together at one place, playing, having masti, fighting for toys with each other when they meet at some one's house.... we recall all our childhood events, discuss, share with others.... and we make the day one more memorable moment.

Missing all those days? Who said? Who said time doesn't repeat? Who said childhood days doesn't come back? The fact is.... TIME REPEATS. We always remain kids for whole life. In fact, we are living the same sort of life once again, not just once, but again and again.

How? Let me explain.

As a kid, you rock your childhood with fun, and your responsibility is your education. As a teen, you enjoy with your friends and family; and the responsibility is your dream and career. As an adult, you enjoy with your kid. Along with them, even you will have fun, and they themselves become your responsibility. And the most wonderful repetition of era would be the GRANDPARENTS ROLE.... where along with your grand children, you become kids and start playing with them... the same way as we used to do in our childhood. How about the responsibility here? Same.... having fun and learning new things along with the new generation, to move forward together.... the complete family.

Now.... ARE WE REALLY MISSING THOSE DAYS? has become a billion dollar question for us. Isn't it?

Thursday 16 October 2014

A very special day....

My birthday.... a very special day with lot many special events n here it goes
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Day started at some odd time (probably) and went on like this....
12:01AM: Something unexpected happened, which was surprising or may be shocking (at-least for me)

I was in a half sleep. Felt someone is trying to wake me and was just coming into consciousness. Did not even open my eyes; some words were ringing in my ear.... of course, not clear for me as though

But finally with lot of struggle I opened my eyes and see what? Vaasu (my better half) trying to wake me up with a pleasant smile.... As soon as I opened my eyes...again my ears hear some words that Vaasu is telling me “HAPPY BIRTHDAY”

He did not sleep till 12:00 to wish me first for the most special day of my life.... “Round the clock/ All day week” i.e., 24/7 - my date of birth. Yes, it is now 24th July 2014, my birthday

That’s my first surprise that I received from him. Immediately 2nd surprise followed.... received 2 greeting cards. First one on his behalf wishing for my birthday and second one on behalf of my son Aitihya. Most delightful cards filled of so much feelings and emotions...


Then, back to sleep

Morning...as usual day started with daily work, lunch preparations and getting ready to office, breakfast, Aitihya trip on vehicle. Small changes were, my mother - in - law preparing dessert (sweet pongal) for me, then me taking blessings from in-laws and hubby

Its gift time.... Vaasu gifted me a beautiful pearl set




One more change was route towards office....instead of Habsiguda to Somajiguda, my vehicle took a round from Habsiguda to S R K Puram, and then to Somajiguda. Yes, went to parent’s house. Met them, took their blessings, had the dessert prepared by my Matri... Double-ka-meeta, and then went to office

Its evening, and for a change we (me and Vaasu) planned to leave home early. But NOT to my surprise, it rained. Somehow, we finally reached home. Vaasu was the one to reach first and then me. As soon as I enter into the house I see my parents and my only younger sister in front of me, along with other family members, my in-laws, nephew Krishna and Vaasu.

Then one more surprise from Vaasu.... Cake. 

Another gift was.... family dinner @ SUPRABHAT hotel, Habsiguda. Had lot of fun...

Of course... in the meanwhile there were lot many birthday gifts received from different people... some were really surprising and very special too

Out of which first one is, My best friend.... remembering my birthday and wishing me

First wish in Whatsapp... Krishna Chivukula

First wish from CHIKAGO batch... my cousin Silpa Gottipati

Then my younger brother Sarat Chandra birthday wish, which was some weird but
lovely gift... calling me “Akkaya” (for the first time)

Similar gift from my elder brother, Aswani Amarendra Nath... wishing me “Happy birthday CHELLI”

So many birthday wishes from friends (especially Crazy Frogs), cousins in facebook, calls, messages – whatsapp & SMS, mails...

One more surprise gift from another nephew... Bharadwaj, wishing me on phone for my birthday
Few people sending me wishes....Smita, Chandra Jonnavithula, Swati, Srinivas Patimalla, Venkat babai and pinni, newly married couple Krishna and Sri valli.

For the first time out of these many years.... my special day has become much more special, exciting and memorable, just because of all these events. And it just happened because of all my friends and family members, by wishing me in different ways... I thank each and every individual for making my day very sweet and pleasant

Last, but not least... a very special thanks to my hubby... for all the surprises, gifts and celebrations, that made my day very precious and very very special.

:) :) :)